Any sex and marriage story can have a happy or a tragic end. The sex related issues that a couple need to overcome after marriage tend to be the same in the case of most of the marriages so we could talk about a marriage and sex issues stereotype. Mostly for men marriage grants sex without having to do anything specific about it and for women it grants stability and protection. But if you are having sex issues in a marriage you would be more interested in finding out how to solve them so here you have a personal story of a marriage and sex issues and how they got solved.

“They say love lasts three years in a marriage and I am starting to wonder if that is true. When we first got married we were so happy and we just couldn’t get enough of each other. Time however changes everything. Before marriage we had a long distance relationship so moving in together was a great deal for us. We were together all day long. Cooking, doing laundry (and some other things that involved the washing machine) and we were going always together to bed where of course we were having great sex. That was until we got so busy that everything changed. The job and then the kids changed our life without us even noticing.

The greatest marriage and sex issues started when my wife was so distant that I was starting to believe that she found someone else. Sex was almost missing from our couple life and all this started within the first three years of our marriage. We had tried any sex position we had known and we fulfilled all our fantasies and maybe that was the mistake. We didn’t keep any secret for later because we were supposed to spend the rest of lives together anyways. At some point the thought that she would be seeing someone else started to bother me but I knew that she loved me and that I still loved her. After all, when I took the decision to marry her I did it for the rest of my life.

How did we as a married couple overcame all these issues? By opening up and talking to the other. One day we just set together and asked questions and tried to answer to them at the same time. A marriage is not easy, there is no doubt but communication is the most important thing in any type of relationship especially when the problems appear”.
This sex and marriage story had a happy end and those of you who have this issue in your marriage take under consideration that communication may be the key.